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Calling Your Sexual Energy Back to Yourself - Menopause, Desire & Intimacy
June 3, 2026

Calling Your Sexual Energy Back to Yourself - Menopause, Desire & Int…

What happens when your desire doesn't disappear—but simply stops showing up when you expect it to? In this candid conversation, we explore what it means to reconnect with sexual energy during menopause, navigate intimacy when your body is changing, and find new ways of relating to desire without pr…

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Taking Off the Cardigan Before the Hot Flash Starts -| Menopause, Intimacy & Midlife Changes (part 2)
May 29, 2026

Taking Off the Cardigan Before the Hot Flash Starts -| Menopause, Int…

What happens when motivation disappears and life suddenly feels emotionally heavy? In this vulnerable continuation of our conversation, we explore purpose, depression, emotional numbness, spirituality, self-worth, relationships, burnout, and the complicated experience of trying to feel useful in th…

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Taking Off the Cardigan Before the Hot Flash Starts - Menopause, Intimacy & Midlife Changes (Part 1)
May 22, 2026

Taking Off the Cardigan Before the Hot Flash Starts - Menopause, Inti…

What happens when your body changes faster than your identity can keep up? In this deeply honest and unexpectedly funny conversation, we talk openly about menopause, hot flashes, painful intimacy, emotional overwhelm, body changes, relationships, self-worth, and learning how to care for ourselves t…

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A Little Woo-Woo, A Lot About Love and Loss
May 1, 2026

A Little Woo-Woo, A Lot About Love and Loss

This one’s a little extra woo-woo—and also deeply human. A real conversation about loving someone who may be nearing the end of their life, and the emotions that come with it. We talk about the question “Did I do enough?”, what it means to be present when you can’t fix anything, and how love shows …

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You’re Not That Important… and That’s Freedom (Self-Image, Aging & Letting Go of Judgment)
April 24, 2026

You’re Not That Important… and That’s Freedom (Self-Image, Aging & Le…

What if one of the most freeing realizations is that… no one is actually paying that much attention to you? In this episode, we explore self-image, aging, and the pressure to look or be a certain way—and how much of that pres...

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Is He a Bad Man… or Just Honest About Sex? (Desire, Honesty & Rejection)
April 9, 2026

Is He a Bad Man… or Just Honest About Sex? (Desire, Honesty & Rejecti…

Is he a “bad man”… or just honest about sex? A real conversation about desire, rejection, and what happens when sexual needs don’t match—especially in the context of low libido, pain, and long-term relationships. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.com Websit…

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Real, Random & Honest: Aging, Relationships & Self-Trust
April 9, 2026

Real, Random & Honest: Aging, Relationships & Self-Trust

This episode of Vagina Whispering is a candid, wide-ranging conversation about life, relationships, and the process of becoming more honest with yourself over time. We move between humor and reflection as we talk about aging,...

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Begin Again: Listening to the Body, Honoring Cycles, and Letting Ourselves Be Human
Feb. 23, 2026

Begin Again: Listening to the Body, Honoring Cycles, and Letting Ours…

In this episode of Vagina Whispering , we have a wide-ranging, deeply honest conversation about listening to the body—physically, emotionally, and energetically. We talk about creativity as medicine, perimenopause and depress...

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Begin Again: Listening to the Body, Honoring Cycles, and Letting Ourselves Be Human
Feb. 20, 2026

Begin Again: Listening to the Body, Honoring Cycles, and Letting Ours…

In this episode of Vagina Whispering , we have a wide-ranging, deeply honest conversation about listening to the body—physically, emotionally, and energetically. We talk about creativity as medicine, perimenopause and depress...

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Begin Again: Listening to the Body, Honoring Cycles, and Letting Ourselves Be Human
Feb. 13, 2026

Begin Again: Listening to the Body, Honoring Cycles, and Letting Ours…

In this episode of Vagina Whispering , we have a wide-ranging, deeply honest conversation about listening to the body—physically, emotionally, and energetically. We talk about creativity as medicine, perimenopause and depress...

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A Shrinky-Dink Boob,  a Magic Wand, and a Barbie Shoe
Jan. 13, 2026

A Shrinky-Dink Boob, a Magic Wand, and a Barbie Shoe

In Part 1 of this two-part Vagina Whispering conversation, we talk honestly—and with humor—about what it’s actually like to live in a body after everything. This episode includes real, unfiltered stories about: Mammograms and...

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#25 Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex After Cancer-Poop Talk, Intimacy & Spirit in the Bedroom Part 2
Dec. 10, 2025

#25 Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex Aft…

You’re not crazy, broken, or alone if cancer treatment, stress, or changing seasons of life have completely shifted your relationship with your poop, your vagina, and your sex life. In this real-talk, laugh-til-you-snort epis...

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Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex After Cancer-Poop Talk, Intimacy &  Spirit in the Bedroom Part 1
Nov. 26, 2025

Don’t Trust a Fart: Colon Hydrotherapy, Vaginal Dryness & Sex After C…

You’re not crazy, broken, or alone if cancer treatment, stress, or changing seasons of life have completely shifted your relationship with your poop, your vagina, and your sex life. In this real-talk, laugh-til-you-snort epis...

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#24 Monotony, Erotica and Spicing Ourselves Up
Oct. 15, 2025

#24 Monotony, Erotica and Spicing Ourselves Up

Jen and Noelle talk about realizing the ruts that are easy to fall into within long term relationships and being open to new things including thinking about how to Spice Ourselves up and using baby steps to do make changes. P...

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#23-Autopilot, Lots of Feelings and New Perspectives
Sept. 24, 2025

#23-Autopilot, Lots of Feelings and New Perspectives

Jen and Noelle catch up about hormonal, seasonal and other changes, the mixed feelings of being uncomfortable in your own body and smarter ways to communicate about that. A lovely message from Jen's Spirit Guide comes through...

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#22 part 1-Choices, Outgrowing Fantasy and Being Grateful
Sept. 14, 2025

#22 part 1-Choices, Outgrowing Fantasy and Being Grateful

Jen and Noelle talk about possible past/parallel life impacting today including choices, decisions and growing past being stuck and bringing your energy with you. Jen shares about a Shamanic visit with her recently departed d...

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#18 Part 2-Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whitni Miller (TW)
Sept. 14, 2025

#18 Part 2-Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whitni…

Whitni Miller is a Queer Couples Intimacy Coach and Sex Educator. Whitni shares stories and examples and tips of how to increase communication, safety, security, related to intimacy and connection. She reminds us that we own ...

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#19 The Energetic Impact of a Hysterectomy and More with Maria and her Vagina
Sept. 14, 2025

#19 The Energetic Impact of a Hysterectomy and More with Maria and he…

Jen and Noelle interview Maria, an intuitive medium, looking for more connection and communication with her body. Lots of metaphors, loving suggestions, humor, a bit of snark and lots of info to get back to be more fully aliv...

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#20 - THE Vagina Whisperer shares a wealth of knowledge.
Sept. 14, 2025

#20 - THE Vagina Whisperer shares a wealth of knowledge.

Sara Reardon, The Vagina Whisperer, really graces us with her presence, wisdom and passion for teaching women about their vaginas, pelvic floor needs and so much more. Her book, FLOORED: A Complete Guide to Women’s Pelvic Flo...

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#21-Braces, Self-Consciousness and EmBracing You Now
Sept. 14, 2025

#21-Braces, Self-Consciousness and EmBracing You Now

Jen shares about how getting braces has impacted her. Noelle talked about some of her own self-consciousness that is coming up at this time. Both look for ways to outgrow self-consciousness and do things to feel good now. Ins...

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#18 Part 1 - Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whitni Miller (TW)
June 25, 2025

#18 Part 1 - Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whit…

Whitni Miller is a Queer Couples Intimacy Coach and Sex Educator. Whitni shares stories and examples and tips of how to increase communication, safety, security, related to intimacy and connection. She reminds us that we own ...

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#17 Tantra, Subtleties, the Art of Love and Pleasure with Francoise Ginsberg, PhD
May 9, 2025

#17 Tantra, Subtleties, the Art of Love and Pleasure with Francoise G…

Francoise Ginsberg, Tantra teacher for 40 years joins Jen and Noelle to share about the deeper meaning behind Tantra being the idea of expansion. She also talks about different ways to connect using the principles of acceptan...

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#15 - Reaching out with your heart first, Connecting and Pear Sauce
May 8, 2025

#15 - Reaching out with your heart first, Connecting and Pear Sauce

Jen and Noelle talk about different ways of connecting including their recent in-person meeting, the biggest lesson from Jen's daughter, Teal's intense sensory therapy and how a non-verbal/verbal-ish person got Noelle to bring her pear sauce. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at Vag…

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#16: Love Languages, Learning and Layers Part 1
May 8, 2025

#16: Love Languages, Learning and Layers Part 1

Timeless classic, The Five Love Languages, is broken down and applied with the help of Jen, Noelle and ChatGPT. As always, honesty, humor, friendship and caring as we talk about tending to the relationships in our lives. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at VaginaWhispering@Gmail.co…

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